Radical Queer Therapy in Minnesota. 

Fuck fitting in.

LGBTQ+ therapy that starts where you are: affirming, politicized, and deeply queer without compromise. 

For everyone living outside the lines.

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It’s damn hard to be yourself in this world.

“Is this normal?” you think to yourself.

You know “normal” isn’t the goal, but you also can’t help feeling like there’s some metric you’re supposed to measure up to so the world will approve of you.

Parts of you know better – the parts with a nuanced, grown-up understanding of gender and sexuality.

But other parts of you still carry beliefs you heard as a kid – that you still hear in the media, at family dinners, in casual conversations with well-meaning friends. Even in your own head.
That being queer or trans means there’s something wrong with you.

That you aren’t living up to your assigned gender.

That you’re obsessed with sex (or haven’t had “good” sex yet).

That not choosing one gender to love means you can’t decide.

That you’re lying, or mentally ill, or crazy.

You’re too much. You’re not enough.

And more. There’s always more.

Marginalization is poisoning you.

Maybe you’re just starting to understand what “queer” means to you. Maybe you’ve been on this journey for a long time.

Either way, living in a world that treats your identity as optional, not real, or evil is exhausting.

You don’t even notice how much energy it takes until you finally sit still. That’s when you realize how heavy you feel inside.

Toxic ideas about gender and sexuality accumulate in your nervous system like sediment, even for old pros.

You want more than “queer-friendly.”

When it comes to a therapist, you want queer, period.

You need someone to talk to about all the shit you have going on. 

Some of it goes back to family patterns and wounds in your own history. Other stuff  comes from trying to live a meaningful life within systems designed to erase you.

Wouldn’t it be great to have therapy where you don’t have to educate anybody about what it’s like to be queer in a heteronormative world? Together, we can:

Explore what “queer” means to YOU.

  • Without having to explain your identities over and over.

Address the traumas you’re carrying.

  • Not just stick a bandage on them, but heal them from the inside out.

Release shame and self-harming beliefs.

  • Build resilience and safety within yourself.

I can support you in navigating those waters and learning how to swim—or how to get the fuck out of the lake entirely.

It’s time to heal ALL of you.

Because you’re a beautiful, complex person who deserves to live with joy and ease.

Wherever you are in the gender galaxy, whatever sexualities you have… you get to write your story about who you are and what you want.

Don’t believe me? That’s okay – we’ll work on it.

Send me a message to set up a free consultation.

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